Hey
Let’s do a simple discardment to see if it’s an Enfold problem or no, can tou try resetting your password from the login screen? see if you get the recovery mail in your inbox.

Do you have Enfold’s performance options active?
Theme Options > Performance
Have you tried some of the built in optimisations that are available in the theme to combine css files and js files

As a complement I suggest Wp Rocket Plugin will help you reduce waiting times.