Video iframe thumbnail on mobile devices

When I open up a self hosted video in an iframe on a mobile device it gives me an autogenerated thumbnail, and requires the user to click ‘play’ again.

I understand autoplay isn’t possible(?) but how can I make this stretch the full width of the iframe? At the moment it looks very poor.

> Please see example in the private content.

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