Multiple Video Links on the Same Page

Hello
I have many youtube video links on the same page. The problem is that when you click on one video to watch it, and then you click on another video, the first one keeps playing

Is it possible to avoid multiple youtube videos to load at the same time, or have a way to stop one video as soon as another video plays on the same page

PS i tried to change the video setting to open in a lightbox, which is a great feature, however i do not want to have a black blank cover for the videos, and i prefer not to customize preview/fallback images for each video .. it is a loss of time

Thank you