Menu item that you can't click?

Hi, I’m making a site at http://atlasdigital.se/masterjohan/.

At the top right, I’ve made a menu item called “Tjänster” which means “Services” in english. As its child pages I’ve listed 3 different kinds of services my client offers.

Is there a way to create that first menu item “Services” without being able to click on it? I don’t really want to have the visitor to first go to a parent page and then continue to the 3 child pages. I thought I’d cheated the system by pointing the parent page to the starting page, but after a while I discovered that going to the starting page highlights the “Tjänster/services” page.

– Do you see the problem? I would very much like some advice on this. It might not be theme related, maybe you know of way to create a menu item that is just there to show child pages?

/ Andreas